Often the adult child has visited her parent and has seen their home. Perhaps the refrigerator resembles a petri dish, and the canned goods and packages are "vintage" with pull dates from the turn of the century.
Other danger signs appear from room to room: papers piled high, throw rugs ready to trip on and a bathroom without grab bars.
"Something is not right." Those words of Miss Clavel in the children's storybook Madeleine may seem apt for this situation.
Other scenarios can be telling. Adult children may be caring for their aging parent and realize that they can't do everything. Or they see that their social butterfly Mom is wilting by being left with only family to talk with.
One of the most difficult situations involves a caregiver spouse, whose workload is unbearable, especially given his or her her age.
Every family is different, and every situation is unique. At Silver Age Referrals, we tailor the care to the person or persons. As we discover what makes the person tick and what works for the family, we can come up with good choices for the next step.
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